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my boyfriend and i have been trying to conceive a baby for 3 months now with no luck my question is we have been having intercource daily 2-3 times a day so i know there is no way to miss my ovulating days.my question is today i was due for my period and i started out with very light bleeding it is now a little heavier than before i went this mornig and had my dr. due a urine test which came out negative. she also did blood test wont be back till tomorrow or monday.can someone tell me if there is a chance i can be pregnant.i have heard of something called implantation bleeding what exactly happens when that occurs.i never had that before with my 3 boys.and how heavy of the bleeding can occur when this happens?also is it possible to have to much sex when trying to conceive?please help i really want to have a baby.
In Reply to: getting pregnant posted by kim on April 17, 2003 at 11:37:41:
whatever happened to being married before having babies? who's last name is this baby going to have, yours?
In Reply to: Your 3 boys, your boyfriend? what am I missing here? posted by Rohan on April 17, 2003 at 12:41:40:
for your information they are all my boyfriends kids we just dont want to get married big deal we get along great why bother dont need your input or care to hear it if you cant answer the question dont reply.
In Reply to: Re: Your 3 boys, your boyfriend? what am I missing here? posted by kim on April 17, 2003 at 13:15:25:
Your boyfriend has 3 children but you aren't the mother of any of them? If this is the case why would you compare what happened with the "first 3" if you're not the mother anyhow - it makes absolutely no difference. Sounds to me like you are under 20 years of age or perhaps in your early 20's because if you were any older you would have more sense than this. And, if you didn't want people to prod about your question you should have just kept it generic and said you're having trouble conceiving after 3 months versus going into the fact that you're trying to conceive with your "boyfriend" - that was your own fault.
In Reply to: getting pregnant posted by kim on April 17, 2003 at 11:37:41:
Kim,
So and Rohan are right. But then again, maybe your boyfirend really loves you?
In Reply to: So.. posted by Reader on April 17, 2003 at 13:32:41:
for your information they are my kids too i gave birth to them my boyfriend is all there fathers and we have been together for 11 years.i am not in my 20 by any means so keep your comments to your self too.
In Reply to: So.. posted by Reader on April 17, 2003 at 13:32:41:
You know READER, its none of your business, Kim is asking a question about getting pregnant, not for your opinion.
In Reply to: Re: So.. posted by kim on April 17, 2003 at 14:22:37:
Hi Kim, sometimes when couples try to hard they can't get pregnant. As soon as they relax and forget about it, they get pregnant. You got pregnant 3 times before so more than likely you will get pregnant again. Do you know when your ovulating? Its usually 14 days from your first day of your last period. You will have a mucus discharge. Remember to relax, it will happen.
In Reply to: Re: So.. to KIM posted by mom on April 17, 2003 at 14:34:01:
thanks you for that yes i calculated exactly when i was ovulating and everythnig.i guess we should just relax for a little while.have you ever heard of implantation bleeding?
In Reply to: Re: So.. to KIM posted by kim on April 17, 2003 at 14:39:06:
no,I haven't heard of implantation bleeding. But I'm sure Walt could tell you more.
In Reply to: getting pregnant posted by kim on April 17, 2003 at 11:37:41:
Kim,
Implantation bleeding is light and the colour is pink or brownish. This would happen at approx one week after ovulation which is one week prior to when your period is due. I am sorry to say that if you are bleeding when you are "expecting" your period, it is probably your period. You NEED to relax and not try so hard. The stress can affect the rest of your health in a negative way which ultimately could prevent your from getting pregnant.
In Reply to: So.. posted by Reader on April 17, 2003 at 13:32:41:
Kim or anyone else, if Reader continues to harrass you, please email bill stoll and he will ban this poster from further postings to the board. even if reader posts anonymously, bill can still track through their ISP.
In Reply to: Re: Something to think about, Reader..(a message for you, kim) posted by Observer on April 17, 2003 at 22:30:32:
This is mild.
But if it happens again...
OTOH don't be so quick to become a post nazi.
In Reply to: Re: So.. to KIM posted by mom on April 17, 2003 at 16:06:18:
Thanks, Mom.
The one thing I am sure of (having delivered about 1000 babies) is that the process of conception, pregnancy and delivery is MUCH more complicated than any of us can even imagine. It is a real MIRACLE then any normal baby is born!
I have not heard of "implantation bleeding" but I do not doubt that it occurs.
Walt
In Reply to: Re: Something to think about, Reader..(a message for you, kim) posted by Observer on April 17, 2003 at 22:30:32:
I just noticed that there is another "Reader". How many different people are there posting with this name? Well, the harasser is not ME!
In Reply to: getting pregnant posted by kim on April 17, 2003 at 11:37:41:
I love to read these posts......But, Kim I would suggest you not take all these replies to heart.....so many people...so many opinions. Trying to get pregnant for only 3 months is not a very long time. It took 3 months for birth control to get out of my system so I could get pregnant but that was years ago. (remember the kind of birth control I'm talking about? Sleeping in another bed? lol) that reminds me of a joke: hope everyong can take it:
An American is having breakfast one morning (coffee, croissants, bread,
> > butter and jam) when a Frenchman, chewing gum, sits down next to him.
> >
> > The American ignores the Frenchman who, nevertheless, starts a
> > conversation. French man: "You American folk eat the whole bread??"
> >
> > American (in a bad mood): "Of course."
> >
> > French: (after blowing a huge bubble) "We don't. In France, we only eat
> > what's inside. The crusts we collect in a container, recycle it,
> > transform them into croissants and sell them to the states." The
> > Frenchman has a smirk on his face. The American listens in silence.
> >
> > The Frenchman persists: "Do you eat jelly with the bread??"
> >
> > American: "Of Course."
> >
> > Frenchman: (cracking his gum between his teeth and chuckling). "We
> > don't. In France we eat fresh fruit for breakfast, then we put all the
> > peels, seeds, and leftovers in containers, recycle them, transform them
> into
> > jam and sell the jam to the states."
> >
> > The American then asks: "Do you have sex in France?"
> >
> > Frenchman: "Why of course we do", he says with a big smirk.
> >
> > American: "And what do you do with the condoms once you've used them?"
> >
> > Frenchman: "We throw them away, of course."
> >
> > American: "We don't. In America, we put them in a container, recycle
> > them, melt them down into chewing gum and sell them to France."
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
>
In Reply to: Re: So.. to KIM (Archive in pregnancy.) posted by Walt Stoll on April 18, 2003 at 06:15:58:
well it's my period so i guess i'll keep trying.thank you all for the advice and comments.except the rude ones
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