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A few years ago I had an Hymnotomy performed when I was tweny five to this day I find it very difficult to be stimulated and even more or impossible to reach orgasm. My now husband is becoming more dissatisfied by this and thinks that this surgery damaged or desensitized my genital area. My genitals appear normal. what are your thoughts Thnak you DEE
In Reply to: hymnotomy posted by Dee on May 09, 2002 at 12:03:20:
What is a hymnotomy? I couldn't find that term anywhere.
In Reply to: Re: hymnotomy posted by Donna E. on May 09, 2002 at 12:18:12:
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In Reply to: It's probably posted by labrat on May 09, 2002 at 12:48:36:
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In Reply to: Re: hymnotomy posted by Donna E. on May 09, 2002 at 12:18:12:
Why would you have to have a hymenotomoy and did you have problems with orgasm before that?
In Reply to: hymnotomy posted by Dee on May 09, 2002 at 12:03:20:
Hi, Dee-
In my opinion the hymenotomy should have made no difference at all because it is a very simple procedure. The hymen is usually broken during intercourse, but if this is not possible then the hymenotomy is performed by a doctor.
It is usually the clitoris which is stimulated for sexual arousal; however, many things are involved in this. Both you and your husband are involved in your achieving an orgasm. The best way, from what I have learned, is extensive foreplay, which many men are not accustomed to. Dr. Stoll will answer soon. Raisa
In Reply to: hymnotomy posted by Dee on May 09, 2002 at 12:03:20:
Hi, Dee.
Problems like you are describing can almost always be laid at the feet of the husband!
I would insist that he read the Kama Sutra several times.
Men are not born skillful lovers; they just think they are.
Listen to Raisa.
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