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hi doctor stoll
I need help with something. i noticed today when i was having sex , that i couldnt orgasm. i did eventually, but it toook me a long time, and it doesnt normally take me that long. i didnt think i was going to be able to orgasm at all.
my question is could it be caused from using a vibrator. i do tend to use it quite regularly to bring myself to orgasm. the last week its been everyday. could that be it. can a vibrator not be good for you or affect my sexual health?
thanks in advance.
In Reply to: sexual health posted by question on November 09, 2002 at 10:11:22:
Hi, question.
Are you male or female and how old are you?
Walt
In Reply to: sexual health posted by question on November 09, 2002 at 10:11:22:
female. 33.
use vibrator regulary/daily to achieve orgasm.
during sex, orggasm with vibrator,never orgasm during intercourse.
orgasm more easily on my own with vibrator,than with my sexual partner. with partner takes longer. maybe cause less relaxed. dont know.
In Reply to: Re: sexual health posted by question on November 10, 2002 at 08:01:25:
Hi, question.
This is most likely because you trust yourself more than you trust your partner. Orgasm, especially in the female, is a product of a total trust, giving in & letting go.
It is sort of like going to sleep. You cannot make yourself go to sleep. You have to give in to the process for it to happen.
Hope this helps.
Walt
In Reply to: Re: sexual health (Orgasm=Trust.) Archive in sex. posted by Walt Stoll on November 11, 2002 at 09:02:21:
thanks walt.
it happened again to me tonight. so frustrating and disappointing.
i guess you cant MAKE yourself TRUST your partner, right? Your body doesnt lie. :(
In Reply to: Re: sexual health (Orgasm=Trust.) Archive in sex. posted by Walt Stoll on November 11, 2002 at 09:02:21:
dr. stoll
could it just be vibrator addiction? thats why this is happening to me? sorry, I really just had to ask that just incase.
In Reply to: Re: sexual health (Orgasm=Trust.) Archive in sex. posted by question on November 11, 2002 at 23:18:07:
What is the cause of vibrator addiction? Could it be that it is safer to trust your vibrator rather than your partner?
In Reply to: Re: sexual health (Orgasm=Trust.) Archive in sex. posted by question on November 11, 2002 at 09:07:33:
Right on, Question.
Walt
In Reply to: Re: sexual health (Orgasm=Trust.) Archive in sex. posted by question on November 11, 2002 at 23:18:07:
Could be that the intense vibrator stimulation, right where you want it, overshadows the relatively less stimulation of intercourse.
HOWEVER, the most important sex organ in the body is the brain. If you remember that you will likely be able to work it out.
Walt
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