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I was highly aroused today and had rather intense orgasms. But I notice that I when its intense like they were just now, that I get rather tired and fatigued, and just want to lie down, and doze off. That is not always possible as I have things that need to be tended to.
I only had two successive orgasms, so its not like I overdid it or anything like that. I know that when I had seven orgasms in a row, that I was really drained, so now I keep it to a minimum of two - three orgasms at any one time.
Also, is it possible to have stronger orgasms from delaying the orgasm, by stopping and starting? I did that today, and think that maybe by delaying it, is what made it so strong.
In Reply to: Dr. Stoll posted by Tulip on May 02, 2003 at 06:01:54:
Oh really! you are very fortunate!!!!! I am lucky to have one! seven in a row!!!!! you are blessed!!!!!!! P.S. how do you do it!!!!! my sex life is failing because my husband thinks he's not good enough for me because I don't have orgasms,,,I don't even remember the last time (year?) I had one :(((
In Reply to: Dr. Stoll posted by Tulip on May 02, 2003 at 06:01:54:
U go gurrrl
In Reply to: Re: Dr. Stoll posted by How Do U do It??? on May 02, 2003 at 12:06:00:
I really dont know how I do it, its just natural for me, and always has been "normal" for me.
I am not that all that fortunate though, because I have never been able to orgasm during intercourse, with any of my ex-boyfriends and current sex partner as well, only clitoral stimulation does it for me or oral sex.
But I did something interesting yesterday.
I tried something different and it was AWESOME!!!
I have my sex toys, and I normally use a vibrator, not all the time as it can become addictive (blushing) lol, so anyway, for the first time yesterday, I used the vibrator inside myself and the other one I used directly on my clit.
The orgasm was mind blowing. Anyway, I am interested in heightening the orgasm, I dont know why, but once you have mind blowing orgasms, its a total mindfuck! LOL
Anyway, my saga yesterday. So when I orgasmed, I felt the vaginal spasms around the vibrator so strong, like really gripping on the vibrator. It was a very interesting sensation.
But when I eased the vibrator out of myself afterwards, it felt a little bit difficult to come out, and I was a bit scared as that is the first time I have had the vibrator inside my vagina. I didnt turn the vibrator on tho when it was in my vagina, as the vibrations felt too weird inside.Even though the vibrator, was heavily lubricated with my vaginal secretions, it still slightly hurt coming out, like it was slightly pulling on the vaginal skin. I think because its plastic, I dont know. But anyway, after that one I had another orgasm. I do have to say tho that the first orgasm is the biggest orgasm, the others are not AS big, but still very delicious.
Here is a tip for you:
Experiment with yourself first. See what it is you really enjoy. You sound out of tune with your body, start exploring all those yummy pleasures again. I dont think your husband should feel that way at all. Men are very sensitive in the lovemaking arena, and take it as a personal affront, and sometimes it IS issues with partners too, but not always. I have to feel very comfortable with my partner, and trust and intimacy is so important. I think thats a female thing.
Anyway, bac to you,after you have your first orgasm, give yourself about 30 seconds before you start on the next one. Because you know that feeling you get after you have an orgasm and dont want to be touched as you are waaaaaaaaay too sensitive down there, just give yourself a few seconds and continue, you will most likely have another one, but give yourself enough time to recover from the first orgasm, and the sensitivty has worn off somewhat.
One time I just experimented and wanted to see how many I could have in one go. I had 8 orgasms, but its not the best idea (I dont recommend it), as I was drained beyond belief, and had to sleep for a short while after.
I think any woman can be orgasmic/multi orgasmic, (I'm not unique in this)its just a matter of being relaxed and experimenting with what you find enjoyable with pleasuring yourself, and that helps when you have sex with your partner, as you are more in tune with your own body.
In Reply to: Re: Dr. Stoll posted by Good Golly Miss Molly on May 02, 2003 at 18:13:52:
LOL! theres no stoppin' this gal!
In Reply to: Re: How do I do it? posted by Tulip on May 02, 2003 at 19:21:04:
Thanks, Tulip.
Aside from your "talent" I would suggest to non-orgasmic women that they start by reading the Kama Sutra or the Tantra (for the theory) and then read the practical "For Yourself" by Lonnie Barbach.
You are very fortunate.
Namaste`
Walt
In Reply to: Re: How do I do it? (Archive in sex.) posted by Walt Stoll on May 03, 2003 at 08:52:42:
Thanks, Walt.
I was somewhat surprised with your comments. I always thought other women were like me in this regard. I guess not. But I still think all women ARE capable of it, with patience and persistence.
In Reply to: Re: How do I do it? (Archive in sex.) posted by Tulip on May 03, 2003 at 09:06:21:
I agree, Tulip.
However, like any professional sport, some of us have talents far beyond the rest of us.
I believe most of us live our lives much too constrained by our beliefs and so miss much of the wonder if existance.
Congratulations on your talent.
Namaste`
Walt
In Reply to: Re: How do I do it? (Archive in sex.) posted by Walt Stoll on May 04, 2003 at 05:52:21:
Thanks for the compliments, Walt. That sure made me feel special. :)
In Reply to: Dr. Stoll posted by Tulip on May 02, 2003 at 06:01:54:
Did you hear that they are making a cell phone and a vibrator all in one? You talk about wrecks on the highway with JUST the cell phone! Can you see the new commercial: (yelling loudly) "CAN YOU HEAR ME NOW?" LOL
I couldn't resist.......
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