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My daughter is twelve and has white, tiny bumps on her cheeks. I read an archived message saying it could be a fatty acid deficiency. My question is what would be the recommended dosage for a child of 12 weighing 70-75 lbs. Also, what would be the best type of EFA for her?
Thanks for your help
JAN
In Reply to: white bumps on cheeks posted by Jan on March 23, 2002 at 12:51:40:
Okay, I'm 20 and yes, I'M STILL A VIRGIN! Although that may be good to some, it's not a big deal to me because it's about having self-control and knowing how far to go. I am a virgin by choice and I'm waiting for a person who'll understand me before I go jumpping in his bed. I am not waiting for marriage because (1.)I'm not getting married and (2.)I don't believe in that fairy tale crap.
Anyway, my question is, with the fact that I have gotten up to four Pap Smears so far and my hymen has definitely been broken, will sex for the first time still hurt me since technically I'm still a virgin? Reason I ask is because I think I've waited too late to have sex and when I find someone in college to have sex with he's going to expect me to be sexually experience, but since I'm not I don't want to turn him off by the sex hurting me and he's not able to enjoy it due to my virginity. I want the first time to be MAGICAL! Is this possible?
Testing
In Reply to: Virginity posted by Chastity on March 23, 2002 at 13:15:46:
Chastity,
If the sex hurts, and most likely that will come from anxiety and body bracing,
then it won't be enjoyable. That said, if you are comfortable with your partner
and are relaxed in his (or her) prescence (presumably by having done other things together)
then things will go much smoother. It's a toss up as for male preferences.
Some males will feel extremely honored intiating you into the pleasures of sex, and will do
everything to make it as memorable (Magical) as possible.
Other males want a partner who is already experienced so that the things which are mutually
pleasing are already known.
Pragmatically speaking, you have to start somewhere. My own opinion is to find the former.
You haven't "waited too long." Have sex when YOU are ready to have sex, not before!
As an aside, marriage is not "Fairy Tale Crap." There are some very good arguements for it,
not the least of which is hot steady sex with someone who cares about your pleasure.
Walking In The Light,
Gregory
In Reply to: Virginity posted by Chastity on March 23, 2002 at 13:15:46:
Technically, sex shouldnt hurt you. Especially as you have had 4 pap smears, so when you have sex for the first time, there isnt that layer of skin to penetrate.
My first time was a nightmare. I was 18 and my reasoning was more curiousity rather than love. My hymen was intact, and it WAS painful, but I kind of put that down to me being so tense and scared. It was no romantic fairy tale. It was definitely not what I expected. My partner at the time was not sensitive and handled me roughly.
But your first time can be MAGICAL. You just have to find someone that you feel really comfortable with and can be yourself. TRUST is an essential part of that, well for me it is anyway.
Not everyman wants someone experienced. They should care about you, not your sexual qualifications. Some men would find it a huge turn on that they would be your first.
And Marriage. Yes, you are right. It is no fairy tale. I am not sure if I believe in it anymore. I think sometimes you are better off to be single. Some people do better at marriage than others.Whatever you do, enjoy your freedom and being single. Because in Marriage,People change over time, and sometimes in marriage, your needs are not always met and it doesnt fulfill you like it should.
In Reply to: Virgin Magic posted by Gregory on March 23, 2002 at 16:43:26:
Sera and Gregory, thanks to the both of you. I don't know, it just seems like maybe I waited too late and now that I'm in college it seems like the guy I end up with will probably be disappointed that I'm still a virgin. That's just my crazy thinking, but hopefully that's not the case because I'm hoping to hook up with someone that wouldn't care if I was either a virgin or a woman of experience. Nonetheless, I feel that when I finally do have sex, it will pretty much be awesome and that I don't be another statistic of not enjoying it the first time. I feel that since I've matured and it's not about curiousity to me(it'll be about being ready and willing), it will be a great experience for me and the guy because trust me, I GOT THE URGE TO MERGE! LMAO
In Reply to: Re: Virgin Magic posted by Chastity on March 24, 2002 at 00:15:07:
Chastity,
I've often been told that there's no such thing as bad sex. However, not every encounter
will be of the awesome variety. If you and your not-yet-chosen got "the connection" then
for the most part, and with training in stuff like Tantra, it should be of the "extremely good"
variety.
WITL,
Gregory
In Reply to: eMERGEncy posted by Gregory on March 24, 2002 at 01:16:10:
Hopefully so Gregory. Hey tell me something, have you ever been with a virgin? If so, did you like it or was it a bad experience for you and her both? I just want to know so I can somewhat get an idea of what it will be like for the guy I give myself to for the first time. I really want him to be satisfied and I too want to be content. I really look forward to a great time, not another one of those "My first time was horrible" ordeals.
In Reply to: Re: eMERGEncy posted by Chastity on March 24, 2002 at 02:32:32:
That particular question would probably best be answered in private email. While people
of late have become quite open on the board with regard to all matters sexual, some things
still go over like the proverbial *lead balloon*.
Click on email link above.
WITL,
Gregory
In Reply to: Re: Virgin Magic posted by Chastity on March 24, 2002 at 00:15:07:
with the right person sex will be great no matter wether
either are experienced but remember that there are things
that you learn that make it good or better. Just finding
out what you like takes time and doing. People have things
that they like and don't like and some like Everything. I
would think that leting the partner know it is your first
could help if you are worried since if they want experience
and you show that you aren't then it could cause a problem
but then it may be their first time also so you live and
learn.
VF
In Reply to: white bumps on cheeks posted by Jan on March 23, 2002 at 12:51:40:
Hi, Jan.
The EFAs are your best bet. Just remamber that it MAY take 3 months for her to stop getting new ones and a year for the old ones to go away.
Her dosage would be exactly half the doses discussed in the homepage article. #75 is exactly half the average adult weight of #150.
Let us know how she does.
Walt
In Reply to: white bumps on cheeks posted by Jan on March 23, 2002 at 12:51:40:
NMI
In Reply to: Re: white bumps on cheeks posted by Walt Stoll on March 24, 2002 at 09:05:03:
Thanks. We'll give it a try!
Jan
In Reply to: Virginity posted by Chastity on March 23, 2002 at 13:15:46:
first of all; GOOD FOR YOU! As long as you let your partner know ahead of time you should be fine. As far as marriage goes, it can be hell or it can be wonderful. I've been married twice, the first time was hell, this time it's wonderful. Don't rule out marriage, but on the other hand don't let anyone push you. If you haven't already experimented with what makes you feel good (masturbation) try it, then when you have a partner you can guide him in what you like. Don't forget to find out what he likes too, the most enjoyable sex is when both partners are satisfied. Good luck!
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